Private Divorce Process: Step-by-Step Overview

This page provides a strategic overview of how to privately manage a divorce using lawful notice and contract-based procedures. This method focuses on resolution, mutual consent, and protection of your child(ren) and estate.

Step 1: Offer to Resolve the Dispute Amicably

Send an OFFER proposing either:

  • Resolution and continuation of the marriage under clear terms
  • Or, if no response is received, a mutual and amicable divorce with the following agreed terms:
  • Child custody and parenting time
  • Splitting of assets (bank accounts, home, cars)
  • Child lifestyle choices (homeschooling, non-vaccination, food quality, etc.)

Also include:

  • An Affidavit stating no evidence exists showing that the above terms are not a win-win-win for all parties involved
  • A Bond liening your Birth Certificate Estate for $5 million to compensate your ex-spouse for any inconvenience
  • The governing venue and jurisdiction set as "Private International Commercial Law" with arbitration by a court or mediator of your choice
  • Additional terms and conditions as necessary

Step 2: Send a Notice of Fault

If there is no response to the initial offer, send a "Notice of Fault" to establish a legal record of non-response and implied consent.

Step 3: Send a Notice of Default and Consent to Judgment

Upon further silence or non-performance, send a "Notice of Default" and Consent to Judgment to solidify standing.

Step 4: Record and Enforce

  • File appropriate UCC (non-UCC) notices
  • Submit county recorder filings and legal notices
  • Enforce into the Public Court Judgment or enjoin into an existing divorce case if applicable

Other Considerations

You may need to amend or vacate an existing divorce decree depending on prior filings or judgments.

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